Eclectic Mama Angel

 I am getting up early today. I have a lot going on, New Year’s Eve always kicks off my birthday celebration. Today’s celebration will be no different, well, maybe just a little(pandemic and all) Instead of the big to do, rented ballroom, DJ and catered meal, I am going to have a small shindig at my house, with close family, and maybe a friend or two. I am also set to leave town next day,  for, a weekend getaway.  I am both excited and anxious. Excited to be getting away for a little time, with hubby, no kids, no worries at least for a couple days. I have strategically chosen a few places I am going to blog about. I am anxious because, I want to film a video today, edit and post to my socials, including here. But, I also have manicure, pedicure and hair to do. Oh, and my little grand baby is keeping me company while his mom runs an errand. He is in the separation anxiety phase, and has recently discovered if he shrills a certain way it will garner attention and concern. ...

Has there ever been a thing you have loved to do but, you couldn’t get out of your own head about it? Or, maybe you love multiple things, so, you couldn’t pick the one that stands out to you the most. Or, or, or, you are presented with opportunity’s and get rich quick schemes that you know you will be good at, so the one thing you love or are truly good at gets left behind or misplaced, to pursue those things? In any case, I am this person. Stay with me this will make sense in a minute. Keep reading…. I am good at a lot of things. You need help planning an event, decorating for a party or home?  I’m your girl . I can sell water to a fish, manage a business, do hair and nails. I have sold Tupperware, MaryKay. Etc. I’ve worked a many a job, in several fields. Most, in an attempt to make money, make money quickly or to work for “myself”, or, simply me proving I can do or accomplish a thing. You know how they say, if, you are single, looking for love, to stop looking, because, the pers...

 I was given the challenge to make red beans and rice, from a TikTok follower, which, I am here to please, so, let’s go! However, I HAVE NEVER MADE RED BEANS AND RICE!!!!!  I do some quick research, because, how hard can it be, right? I just need to know what goes in there besides beans, guess what….kidney beans and red beans are not the same thing… this thang is starting to get complicated already, child. Failure is not an option,girl! But after my research and, a couple pep talks to myself, I think I may be able to pull it off. Now, if you are wondering why I’m tripping, (that means fretting), it’s because, I don’t ever want to offend or make a mockery of a dish that is a staple to so many.  I think I’m confident I can do it! So, So, So, girl I did!!!! It turned out so delicious, the spice was right, the flavors all meshed together well and the next day it was even better. My mouth is watering thinking about it!!  This is not a dish that can be rushed or forced. Be...

 I am sitting here watching Christmas movies with my family trying to figure the blogging thing out. Do I write out a plan for blogs or, is this something where I just wing it? I don’t know where to begin. How do I fit this “new” thing into my already busy schedule? Hmmm, between  filming for TikTok, posting to Instagram, YouTube, (not really a thing, in real life, but I’m working on it), full-time job, mom-life, and now Grandma (that is so weird, but we will discuss that later), where will blogging fit in?  What I do know is, of all the things I commit to and take on, cooking is and always has been my favorite. Cooking for me is like vacuuming, it takes me away from the stress and reality of my world. It quiets my anxiety, so I can focus on the meal. Cooking is a vibe, a mood, and mine reflects the mood I am in.  If I am feeling creative, my family will get a meal that is derived from many hours of research and preparing. Next day, may be an every man for himself da...

 I have no idea what I am doing. I have always wanted to share my love for cooking, and trying new ideas and recipes. For like 10 years, I have wanted to share,  but I have been super nervous about it. My anxiety is on 12,000 as I type this. Despite not knowing where to begin, what to post, what to talk about, here I am… then there is the whole what if people don’t like my content. My goodness, the pressure!!  I watch all the cooking videos, blogs, and ideas of other moms, and creators, each one more intimidating than the next one. To be honest, creating this blog, and opening myself up to others comments is a huge, huge deal for me. So be patient with me, as I learn to navigate the blog lifestyle. I have content on Instagram, TikTok  and one video on YouTube posted almost a year ago. Again, I DO NOT KNOW WHAT I AM DOING!! My goal is to be consistent, and intentional. My goal for this blog is to make some friends, share some recipes, trade ideas and hopefully get my ...